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An Herbal Year: Five Herbs for May Magic (and How to Use Them)

  • May 8
  • 4 min read

Updated: May 9

There’s something about May. The garden isn’t shy anymore. The sun lingers a little longer. And whether you’ve got acres of beds or a few pots on a windowsill, the herbs are ready to play.


Garden gnome with a turquoise hat stands amidst lush greenery and pink roses. Sunlight creates a warm, serene atmosphere.

Guardian of the roses and lemon balm.



Welcome to the first post in An Herbal Year—a seasonal wander through the world of herbs.


We’ll meet five favorites each time, share a project or two you can actually do, and—if you want to dive deeper—I’ll point you toward more recipes and rituals waiting in the Book of Light.


Let’s start with five herbal allies I reach for every spring (and, really, all year long): Lemon Balm, Chamomile, Rosemary, Thyme, and Calendula.



Lemon Balm: The Sunniest Plant on the Block


Glass mug of lemon balm tea on a wooden board, surrounded by fresh mint leaves. Rustic wooden background. Calm and refreshing mood.

Even her name is a hug. Lemon balm (Melissa officinalis) is pure comfort—bright, lemony, and known for easing anxious minds. If you tend to spiral by Tuesday, she’s your girl.


Magical vibe: Joy, renewal, heart healing

Use it for: Tea, tincture, herbal honey, bath soaks

Grows well in: Pots, garden beds, partial sun

Bonus points: Bees adore her.

Try this: Snip a few fresh lemon balm leaves and steep them with honey in hot water for the gentlest tea you’ve ever had. Call it a “reset potion” and sip slowly.

Chamomile: The Soft-Spoken Star


Close-up of white chamomile with yellow centers in a sunlit meadow. Green background enhances the fresh, vibrant, and serene mood.

Don’t be fooled by her dainty daisy looks. Chamomile is the ultimate soother. She’s good for sleep, digestion, nerves, and just about every kind of overwhelm.


You can choose (only if you WANT to choose) between Matricaria chamomilla (German chamomile) or Chamaemelum nobile (Roman chamomile). German is more commonly used for tea and internal remedies; Roman is often used for skin care and aromatherapy.


Magical vibe: Protection, peace, sleep

Use it for: Tea, facial steam, dream sachets

Grows well in: Full sun, well-drained soil

Fun fact: She's been used since ancient Egypt to calm everything from tummy aches to tantrums.

Make this: A dream sachet! Dry a handful of chamomile, tie it in a little cloth pouch with lavender and a pinch of mugwort. Tuck it under your pillow for sweet, magical dreams.

Rosemary: For Clarity and Courage


Close-up of vibrant green rosemary sprigs with needle-like leaves, set against a blurred green background.

If herbs had personalities, rosemary would be the smart friend who reminds you who you are. Bold, woodsy, and crisp—she clears the cobwebs and sharpens your focus.


Rosemary's botanical name (Salvia rosmarinus) was formerly classified as Rosmarinus officinalis. But since it's a rather recent change, you might find either at the garden center.


I just found a new-to-me variety called Rosmarinus officinalis "Barbeque," which has long strong stems perfect to use as skewers on the barby!


Magical vibe: Memory, clarity, protection

Use it for: Hair rinses, cooking, energy clearing bundles

Grows well in: Dry soil, full sun, forgetful watering schedules

Historical tidbit: Students in ancient Greece wore rosemary in their hair to ace exams. Just saying.


Thyme: The Unsung Hero of the Herb Garden


Close-up of bright green and yellow variegated leaves of a thyme plant, bathed in sunlight, creating a vibrant and fresh appearance.
Lemon thyme is my all-time favorite.

Thyme (Thymus vulgaris) is tiny but mighty. Medicinal, antimicrobial, and magical, she’s an herbal multitasker. Also, smells like summer. My personal favorite is Lemon Thyme. I plant her at the front of my garden borders and wherever I need a plant to fill a gap!


Magical vibe: Courage, healing, faery connection

Use it for: Infused oils, sore throat syrups, faery offerings

Grows well in: Rock gardens, raised beds, or anywhere warm and sunny

Magical folklore: Thyme was said to be a favorite of faeries. Plant it by your door if you're feeling brave.


Calendula: Sunshine in Petal Form


Close-up of yellow and orange calendula flowers on a textured surface, some petals scattered. Bright, vibrant colors create a lively mood.

Calendula might be the most magical of them all. With her golden-orange blossoms, she brings both healing and brightness. I grow her every year—and every year she reminds me to keep things simple.


Magical vibe: Healing, light, solar energy

Use it for: Skin salves, oils, teas, bath blends

Grows well in: Just about anywhere with sun

Bonus: Her petals are edible (hello, fancy salad).

Project Time: Calendula-Infused Oil. Gather dried calendula petals and steep them in a carrier oil (like sweet almond or olive) for 3–4 weeks. Strain and use it as a nourishing base for salves, body oils, or even face care.

Want a printable version of this recipe plus more calendula magic? It’s waiting in the May issue of the Book of Light.


Watercolor flower with green leaves on textured paper. Text reads "Book of Light, May 2025." Calm and artistic mood.


A Whisper from the Wild


You don’t need to memorize Latin names or grow the perfect witchy garden. The herbs you’re drawn to are already whispering to you.


Start with one or two.


Make tea. Run a bath. Scribble their names in your Book of Light.


Let your relationship with these plants grow wild and rooted, just like you.


And if you’re curious what else I do with these herbs (including a rosemary rinse that makes you feel like a woodland queen), consider joining the BoL Membership for the full set of downloadable pages and rituals.


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If you're ready to dive more deeply into the magic of plants, don’t forget to download my FREE Mini Guide to Modern Floriography: Your journey into the secret language of herbs & flowers starts here. My gift when you sign up for my email list.



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