I've Been Collecting Touchstones My Whole Life
- 2 days ago
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I just didn't know that's what they were called.

I used to think I was collecting random things.
Shells from the beach.
A smooth stone from a walk.
An old recipe card in someone else's handwriting.
Blue and white transferware.
A feather I spotted on the sidewalk.
The first tomato from the garden.
They never seemed connected.
I just knew I couldn't leave them behind.
I Thought I Was Keeping Things
Over time, I realized I wasn't collecting objects.
I was collecting moments.
The shell remembered the morning walk.
The recipe card remembered the person who handed it to me.
The feather remembered the day I looked up.
Each one carried a small piece of an ordinary life.
Together, they told a story.

The Name (Touchstones) Came Much Later
For years, I didn't have a word for any of this.
I just knew I felt better when I paid attention.
I noticed the little things.
I gathered them when they felt important.
I remembered them long after the season had passed.
One day, I realized they all had something in common.
They were touchstones.
A touchstone is an ordinary object that helps us remember a meaningful moment.
That one sentence quietly changed the way I looked at my own life.
That's Why This Journal Exists
The Everyday Magic Journal isn't about decorating your home.
Or buying more things.
Or creating a perfect life.
It's about noticing the one you're already living.
The stories you'll find here begin with ordinary moments.
A candle burning while dinner cooks.
A market basket that comes home carrying shells instead of groceries.
A white pebble.
A volunteer flower.
A windows-down playlist.
The things themselves aren't the point.
The life they point back to is.
Welcome
If you've ever tucked a shell into your pocket...
Pressed a flower into a book...
Saved a handwritten note...
Or smiled when you found an old feather on a windowsill...
You've been collecting touchstones, too.
You may not have called them that.
Neither did I.
I'm so glad you're here.
Continue Reading
Why the smallest objects often hold our biggest memories.
White Is Never Nothing
A quiet color with more to say than most people realize.
A seasonal collection of stories about noticing, gathering, and remembering.
The conversation continues.
Every Tuesday and Friday, I write a letter to women who still notice.
We talk about beautiful things, beautiful stories, and the little moments worth remembering.
I'd love to have you there.
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